Tips to Create a January Routine That Feels Refreshing, Not Overwhelming
January is here, and it’s not too late for a fresh opportunity to do things differently in the new year.
Rather than piling on more goals, tasks, and things to improve, it’s time to create a routine that feels refreshing, not overwhelming.
No more unrealistic resolutions or expectations. Just simple, refreshing habits that make you feel amazing. Here are some tips to create a January routine that works for you.
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1. Start Small, Then Build Gradually
The idea of starting big in January is a trap. Those ambitious lists of resolutions are usually lost by February.
In his book Atomic Habits, James Clear writes about the power of getting 1% better every day. Small, incremental improvements compound over time, leading to massive changes. So, instead of trying to overhaul your entire life in one go, focus on those tiny, manageable steps that lead to consistent progress.
2. Cut the Overload and Simplify
Doing more isn’t always helpful. Sometimes, it is overwhelming.
Simplifying your routine isn’t about doing less–it’s about doing what’s essential. Freeing up time and energy by eliminating unnecessary tasks or commitments gives you the space to focus on what’s important.
Life is already busy enough. Look at your current routine and ask yourself what’s really necessary and what can be removed. Focus on keeping it simple.
3. Set Intentions, Not Resolutions
Research suggests that more than 40% of people quit keeping their New Year’s resolution by February, and only 9% complete their resolution.
More often than not, resolutions end up feeling like a burden–something you have to do. Intentions on the other hand, feel like a vibe–somethign you want to do.
This mindset shift makes it easier to follow through because it’s something you want to do and less about checking off a box. Intentions are forgiving and flexible, leaving room for life to happen and for you to set the direction.
4. Plan for Flexibility
It’s easy to get caught thinking everything needs to be perfect. But it’s not reality. January’s routine can’t be perfect either.
Plan for flexibility. Create buffers between activities, leave white space on your calendar, and schedule downtime.
Flexibility will let you breathe while still moving forward. Make progress, not perfection.
5. Embrace the Power of Rest
No one can perform at their peak without some form of downtime. As an introvert, I can confirm this. The mind needs downtime to rejuvenate and perform day after day.
Creating intentional breaks with periods of rest is key to long-term success. It will help you stay focused and energized over time. It’s the fuel you need to make the grind sustainable and minimize burnout.
6. Prioritize What Matters Most
Life is a beautiful thing and we want to do a lot. But if we get caught up in a million tasks, we end up accomplishing nothing.
The key is to prioritize the things that truly matter. You can’t do it all–and you shouldn’t try.
7. Make Your Routine Enjoyable, Not a Chore
The problem with most routines is that they feel like tasks to check off. You lose interest quickly and stop looking forward to the little things.
Keeping your schedule light will help. If something begins to feel like a chore, it’s time to reevaluate. The right routine will energize you.
8. Ditch the All-Or-Nothing Mentality
The all-or-nothing mentality is one of the quickest ways to sabotage a new routine. You don’t need to be perfect to make progress.
Trust me, if you miss a workout or have one less-than-healthy meal, that doesn’t mean your whole day (or week) is ruined. Embrace the idea of doing what you can and when you can.
There’s a reason they say that 20% of the work leads to 80% of the results. That’s where the real change happens–over time, with grace.
9. Create a Morning Ritual to Set the Tone
How you start your day sets the tone for everything else. A good morning routine will be simple, grounding, and filled with purpose.
You don’t need a million things to do in the morning. Just find something that works for me. Consider a quick stretch, a cup of coffee, or 10 minutes of quiet time to start your day with intention.
10. Try Micro-Habits
Sometimes, a big routine change can be overwhelming. That’s why micro-habits are a total game changer.
Instead of committing to a 30-minute workout, you can do 3 10-minute workouts during the day or plan to take a walk around the block every 2 hours.
Microhabits are small, easily achievable actions. They’re easy to fit into your day and help you gain the momentum you need without feeling overwhelmed.
11. Make Space for Playing
Adults often forget how important play is for well-being. In the book Play: How the Brain Opens the Imagination and Invigorates the Soul, author Stuart Brown emphasizes that play isn’t just for kids.
Play is a vital part of maintaining a healthy mind and body at any age. So, make it a priority to include activities that are purely fun in your routine. Give yourself permission to unwind and recharge without the pressure to be productive. Learn to enjoy the moment and let go of stress.
12. Make Time to Declutter
A cluttered space often leads to a cluttered mind. Plan to spend 5-10 minutes each day decluttering and clearing out one area in your home or workspace.
Keep a basket or bin in a central spot where you can quickly toss items that don’t belong in a particular room-things like mail, toys, or random papers. At the end of the week, go through the basket and put everything back where they belong.
13. Focus on Enjoying the Process
Instead of constantly measuring your progress against an end goal, shift your focus to enjoying the process itself.
Embrace the little joys that come with what you’re doing. This way, you’ll look forward to the activity rather than feeling like you have to get through it.
When the process becomes as enjoyable as the end result, you’ll find that the journey itself becomes the reward, and the pressure to achieve fades.
14. Reevaluate and Adjust as You Go
Your routine isn’t set in stone. It’s okay to revisit it and make adjustments. If something isn’t working for you, change it.
Don’t be afraid to shift things around and try new things. Your routine is intended to support your life.
Theresa Bedford is a minimal-ish advocate, storyteller, and wellness enthusiast who believes that simplicity is the key to wellness and a more intentional, fulfilling life. After realizing she was spending too much time searching for things—both physically and mentally—she embraced minimalism, not as a rigid rule, but as a way to create space for what truly matters.